Author name: Matthew

Self-Awareness and Self-Delusion

“All sin starts from the assumption that my false self, the self that exists only in my own egocentric desires, is the fundamental reality of life to which everything else in the universe is ordered. Thus I use up my life in the desire for pleasures and the thirst for experiences, for power, honor, knowledge and love, to clothe this false self and construct its nothingness into something objectively real. And I wind experiences around myself and cover myself with pleasures and glory like bandages in order to make myself perceptible to myself and to the world, as if I were an invisible body that could only become visible when something visible covered its surface.” Thomas Merton, “New Seeds of Contemplation”

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Ten Qualities of a Wise Person

As I look to the new year and all that it offers by way of renewed vigor, I also understand that it doesn’t come with a blank slate. Year after year we have worn ruts in our life by our habits. Our amends with sinful behaviors and the inevitable justification and jawing about how we deserve to act a certain way because that person or situation required it. I have heard time after time of people making excuses for childish behavior when they need to have already grown up and taken accountability for their actions. Instead of seeing such accountability as an act of love, they take it as a barb of unkindness. 

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